Christmas Note #4: Unexpected Blessings

I think what I love most about this time of year is the unexpected blessings we encounter while living our day-to-day lives.

A good example of this is the decorating of trees in the park where I walk.

I first noticed this practice last year. Seemingly random trees were decked out — although that might be too strong a word — with Christmas bulbs around the holidays.

When I began walking more regularly with my friend, I asked her about them.

“Oh,” she said, “the ladies who walk do that. They pick a tree and decorate it for the holidays.”

Well, I thought that was brilliant, so this year I set aside some bulbs just for that purpose. And while it’s true, “my” tree will never win any awards, I’d like to think it might bring some unexpected joy to those who use our lovely park.

IMAG0467_BURST002Here are a few trees other walkers have decorated.Park Tree 2Park Tree 3Park Tree 4Park Christmas Tree 2

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Christmas Note #3: The Worst Christmas Tree Ever

Click through to see: http://9lols.net/the-worst-christmas-tree-ever/the-worst-christmas-tree-ever/

Not to be outdone, Huffington Post offers “WTF Ornaments: 45 Worst Christmas Tree Decorations.” What’s with the mermaid tails?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/11/wtf-ornaments-45-worst-christmas-tree-decorations_n_2278305.html

Our little Charlie Brown tree look positively regal by comparison.

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Christmas Note #2: The Christmas Truce, in Their Own Words

I shared the World War I Christmas truce of 1914 in a previous year’s Christmas Note, but how much better it is to hear it in the words of the men who were there. Here’s a podcast from the Imperial War Museum’s “Voices of the First World War.”

http://tinyurl.com/njdzfxe

You can also watch this year’s Sainsbury’s Christmas advertisement, which is a dramatization of one of the many temporary, spontaneous truces that sprang up on the front lines of Europe. 

Gosh, I hate it when a commercial brings tears to my eyes, don’t you?

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Christmas Note #1: Amazing A Capella

Despite spending many years as a member of our church’s youth choirs, I’m the first to admit, I don’t sing very well or even tunefully. So a capella groups confound me.

How do they do it?

Luckily, I don’t have to understand sublime music to recognize and enjoy it. And I hope you’ll enjoy this mix by Pentatonix.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDBHthP9EtQ

 

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Let the Christmas Music Commence

Oh, stop the groaning already! I get enough from Darling Daughter and The Engineer. As soon as I stick in a holiday CD or punch the button on my iPod (because, hey, I do live in the twenty-first century), it’s complaints all round.

Sigh.

Yes, I confess. I’m a Christmas music-aholic.
Does this mean I enjoy Christmas Muzak? It does not.
Do I believe we need to hear any variation of “Winter Wonderland” before Halloween?
No, I do not.
And do I think every freakin’ version of “Last Christmas I Gave You My Heart” is a work of genius? Absolutely not! (If you ask me, none of them are works of genius — or even lyrical competence. I think the song is sentimental dreck produced to make a money off — I admit it — people like me.)

And yet … I love Christmas music.
The breathtaking magic of Bowie and Bing.
Kirsty MacColl and The Pogues and their cynical, but no less touching, version of the holiday.
Chris Isaak’s “Washington Square” brings to mind our soldiers so very far from their families and loved ones.
Jackson Browne’s “Rebel Jesus” reminds us perhaps we ought to concern ourselves in the “business of why there are poor.”
And the carols of a candlelight Christmas Eve service always bring tears to my eyes.

I love them all.

This can be a little, er, problematic because, you see, it turns out I married someone who is  — how can I put this nicely? — a bit of a grinch.

This doesn’t mean The Engineer is a horrible person — not at all. He simply doesn’t get what the fuss is about.

Poor guy. It must have been a bit of a shock to discover he was married to someone like me.

It took time to learn how to work our way through the season without drama. But I think — after twenty-six years of celebrating it together — we’ve figured it out.

He doesn’t complain when I do the things that make me happy. In exchange, he gets pretty much a free pass on being involved.

It works for us.

You see, after several years of BIG DRAMA, I actually sat down and thought about what I love about Christmas. The list wasn’t long as long as I expected it to be.

  1. Decorating our house.
  2. Giving gifts.
  3. Christmas Eve candlelight service.
  4. Making plates of cookies and fudge to give to others.
  5. The smell of pine and the beauty of twinkling lights.
  6. Music.

I’ll admit I’ve yet to find a way to work the genuine scent of pine into our holidays without either hacking down a tree or struggling to plant one in rock-hard ground in the middle of winter, but someday I’ll figure it out. And I was shocked to discover that receiving gifts didn’t feature all that much in my ideal Christmas.

In my mind, Christmas has nothing to do with Black Friday or Cyber Monday and everything to do with family and friends and occasionally surprising those you don’t know very well with acts of charity or friendship.

And, if in the background, you might hear Bing and Bowie, well that would just be a bonus, wouldn’t it?

What about you? What Christmas songs make you stop whatever you’re doing to listen? And what about the season is most important to you?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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New Eyes: On Finding a Fresh Perspective

“The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” — Marcel Proust

Claude Monet painted in Giverny from 1883 to 1926 (http://tinyurl.com/ld94xqh — Rick Steves’ article), something I’ve always found difficult to comprehend. How anyone could find continual inspiration in the same scene for thirty-three years? And yet, those years were some of Monet’s most productive. (For proof, you need look no further than “Water Lilies” at the Cleveland Museum of Art http://tinyurl.com/qykh2wo.)

Recently, however, I began to understand how this could be so, and I’ve come to believe creativity isn’t so much about seeing new things but — as in the Proust quote above — “seeing with new eyes.” For me, this has meant learning to pay attention to what is happening in my very ordinary, occasionally boring, everyday life.

You see, this summer I began walking a few days a week with friends. We get up early, meet at the same place each time, and usually take the same route.

It’s different every single day.

Same lake, different sunrise.
Same trees, different colors.
Same me, new eyes?

Hinckley 1 Hinckley 2 Hinckley 3

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Hinckley 13
Heron

White Tailed Deer

Hinckley is known for buzzards (Turkey Vultures), and one morning, there were at least fifty circling overhead. Turkey Vultures

Hinckley 14Perhaps to see things from a new perspective, we just need to look.
Maybe all it takes to see the beauty around us is for us to open our eyes.

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Canning: A Connection to the Past

When I was young, most of our fruit and nearly all our vegetables came from the garden or nearby farms, freshly picked in summer and from jars that filled the two large cupboards in our basement during the rest of the year.

In the late summer and early fall, our house was filled with the hot steam of the constantly boiling canner and the tinny ping of sealing jars. My grandma and grandpa visited for weeks at a time and would sit on the porch, stringing beans or peeling apples for applesauce or jam.

Lest you think we lived in some kind of rural haven populated by farmers, I should point out that I grew up in what could only be described as a bedroom community suburb of Cleveland. Both my parents worked, which makes the amount of food they put away each year nothing short of amazing. Colorful jams and jellies of every description, applesauce, pears, peaches, plums, grape juice, tomatoes, a variety of pickles, green beans, corn, and probably a dozen things I can’t remember — jars and jars of them all.

In our house, the concepts of “local eating” and “organic” were unknown. Gardening, buying from local farms, and preserving food had less to do with what into and on our fruits and veg and more to do with the economics of putting food on the table (though I have to say my father — and indeed his parents — were big fans of manure).

I never considered myself a gardener, but as soon as The Engineer and I bought a house, I started planting, almost instinctively. Drawn by the prospect of a tomato, right off the vine and still warm from the sun, or raspberries that never quite make it to the table, I couldn’t help myself.

Now that we live in the woods, my gardening is limited to a series of pots lining the driveway (an obstacle course for any unwary driver who happens to visit), and we’ve joined a CSA. This local farm provides our family with lots of lovely produce throughout the growing season, and eggs and chicken all year.

For a long time, I felt guilty for not preserving food — especially after my parents eventually split up, and I ended up with the family pressure canner. It sat in our loft, the one-eyed stare of its steam gauge accusing me of being a slacker each time I walked past.

Pressure canners scared me, with good reason. My grandmother had been badly burned when one exploded, scattering green beans and hot liquid all over the kitchen and, more importantly, all over her. I was spending the week there, and I remember she kept saying, “It was my fault, all my fault. I took the lid off too early.”

After that, the familiar rattle of the pressure regulator sounded less like a jaunty rhythm and more like a bomb about to blow.

I never did use that pressure canner and eventually sold it a garage sale to a large family. They were delighted to get it. I was delighted to see it go to someone who would use it.

Time passed. Grandma and Grandpa are both long gone, as is my father. And I have finally begun to can.

It began innocuously, with a bumper crop of peppers from the CSA. I’d already chopped and frozen several bags for use in the winter, but honestly, how many peppers can one family eat? Certainly not this many!Chopped Peppers

Then, one day, at the local farm market, I happened across a little booklet about making jams and jellies, including hot pepper jelly. The solution became obvious. I already had a some jars leftover from Christmas gifts, and I love hot pepper jelly over cream cheese — why not make my own?

I found a great recipe complete with pictures at Mel’s Kitchen Cafe (http://www.melskitchencafe.com/jalapeno-jelly-and-a-canning-tutorial/). My friend Barbara gave me a pair of canning tongs she’d won.

It was clearly meant to be.Jalapeno Jelly

The jelly turned out beautifully, especially considering I didn’t have a canning rack and had to hack one. (If you’re thinking of following suit, do yourself a favor and just buy one. It’s much easier.)

In three weeks, I’ve made and canned Apple-Pear Sauce using Robin Davis’s excellent recipe (http://foodcookeat.com/2014/09/02/apple-invasion/), two more batches of pepper jelly (with enough peppers chopped for batches three and four), ginger pear jam, and two batches of cinnamon cider jelly (lots of recipes online).

Dad would be proud. My mom certainly is.

I think Grandma would laugh at me, canning tiny 1/4 pints of jelly to give as gifts. I’m not sure she’d consider it canning at all.

Still, I think the ginger pear jam would make excellent bar cookies with a crumble crust and sprinkle. Don’t you?

Ginger Pear Jam

 

 

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Do Women Write Better Than Men?

Or do men write better than women?

It depends on who you ask.

As a librarian whose main job is to select items for people who can’t get to the library, I can tell you reading tastes are highly individualized. I also know I send out as many books by women as I do by men.

Unfortunately, the judges of most major literary prizes seem to feel differently. Women are consistently, well, shorted, when it comes to the short lists of such awards. Since there are many excellent blog posts and articles about this issue, I won’t go into here except to say the subjects many women write about — families, love, daily life — are seen as trivial in the “literary world.”

Except when a man writes about them.

I don’t get it. But I’ve always had difficulty understanding someone who thinks a woman’s work (of any kind) is of less value simply because it was done by a she rather than a he. I remember reading somewhere that the original “typewriters” (a person using what we now would call a typewriter) were men. The job was viewed as too strenuous for a woman … until they realized they could pay women less money to do it. Suddenly, it wasn’t strenuous at all, but the perfect career path for a female. Unfortunately, I can’t find reference to that article now. (I’m sure a male blogger would have.)

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to believe the value of work has more to do with who’s doing it than what the job actually is. But you don’t want to get me started on that (just ask The Engineer), so I’ll return to the subject at hand.

In an effort to be objective, I will point out that it’s rare for a man to win the RITA, which is given each year to recognize outstanding published romance novels and novellas, probably because few men write in the romance genre.

Fair enough. Not many women win the Spur awards (given to recognize excellent writing in the western genre). I’m okay with that too. Not many women write westerns.

If fewer women wrote literary fiction, I’d accept the same reason for the dearth of women winning those awards.

But that’s not the case.

So, who writes better? Women? Or men?
A fairer question might be, do you prefer to read books written by women or men?
Or does it depend on the book?
Your mood?
The writer?
All of the above?

I pick “all of the above.” How about you? Leave a comment to tell me what you think.

Still, it’s good to know the statistics (as seen below) would seem to indicate that women are, in fact, better writers than men.

 

Grammarly_MenvsWomen_Writers_infographic

Disclaimer: I chose to write about this subject after Grammarly, an online grammar checker, contacted me. They volunteered the use of their info graphic (above) and will be donating $20 in my name to Reach Out and Read (http://www.reachoutandread.org) as a thank you for featuring their name, website and graphic in this post.

Further reading on sexism in literary prize giving

Literary Women, Literary Prizes. Not Often to Be Found in the Same Room
by Bidisha
http://bidisha-online.blogspot.com/2011/06/literary-women-literary-prizes-not.html

Man Booker Prize Winner Eleanor Catton Targets Literary Sexism
by Emily Keeler
http://articles.latimes.com/2013/oct/17/entertainment/la-et-jc-man-booker-prize-winner-eleanor-catton-sexism-20131017

The Second Shelf: On the Rules of Literary Fiction for Men and Women
by Meg Wolitzer
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/01/books/review/on-the-rules-of-literary-fiction-for-men-and-women.html

 

 

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The Will to Live

Earlier this summer, city workers in a nearby town  chopped down a bunch of trees along a roadside.

This wasn’t as terrible an act as it sounds. The trees weren’t big or old, and I remember reading in the paper they were infested, probably by the Emerald Ash Borer, an insect that has been chomping through Ohio.

But a few weeks ago, I noticed many of the stumps have new growth, as if a mere insect or even a chain saw couldn’t eradicate those trees’ wills to live.

Well. I just love that.

If a tree, which is supposedly a simple organism, can exhibit such strength and determination, what kind of growth might you and I be capable of?

Tree

 

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This Is Not a Cooking Blog

A rave about food: This is not a cooking blog. And I am clearly not a food photographer. If it was and I were, this picture would look a lot more appetizing.

Garden Fresh Corn Soup

Garden Fresh Corn Soup

I don’t care. I sort of made up the recipe, it tastes delicious, and so I’m going to share.

Ingredients
Corn
(obviously) — I used four ears I got from the local market, steamed when we had corn  on the cob the other day. You could probably use canned or frozen. If it’s fresh, cook it, cut it off the cob and sprinkle on some
Lime Juice — I’m sure fresh is best for this too, but I never have fresh so I used the kind in the bottle. If you like a lot of lime, use a lot. If you don’t, use less. If you hate lime, you could probably leave it out altogether.
Butter — The real stuff. Accept no substitutes. A couple of tablespoons to sauté your
Green Pepper — Medium, chopped
and your
Onion — Medium, also chopped. (These were from my CSA — see why I called this soup “Garden Fresh?”)
Chicken Stock/Broth — I used a carton (4 cups) because I didn’t have fresh.
Potatoes — Peeled and cubed. Mine were from my own plants (not that I’m bragging or anything).
Cumin — I used about 1 teaspoon because I like cumin. Adjust to your taste
Ground Cayenne Pepper — 1/2 teaspoon sounded good to me.
Jalapeño Pepper — one, chopped
Milk — About 3 tablespoons per bowl

May also add: cilantro, salt, lime zest, flour/milk mix if you like very thick soup, cream if you prefer it to milk

Sauté the onions and green peppers until tender. Meanwhile, mix corn and lime juice (and zest if you’re using fresh lime) in a medium-sized bowl. When onions and peppers are tender, add broth/stock, cumin, cayenne pepper and potatoes. Bring to a boil, reduce to simmer, and cook until potatoes are tender enough to mash. Mash the potatoes. Add corn and jalapeño, and heat through.

If I wanted a thicker soup, this is when I would mix a couple tablespoons of flour and milk to form a paste, bring the soup to a boil again and gradually stir in flour/milk paste until the soup is thick enough to make me happy. Or I might cheat and stir in some instant mashed potatoes (definitely not fresh or from the garden, but it’s quick).

You could add the milk all at once, but I plan to freeze some of the soup, so I’ll just stir in 3 tablespoons of milk into each cup before serving. You can use cream if you’re feeling particularly decadent. And if you want a more elegant presentation, chop some cilantro and use it as a garnish.

I based this soup on a couple of recipes, most particularly a potato leek soup that we love. Here’s a link to that recipe: http://tinyurl.com/2sa9dd.

There’s just nothing better than a big cup of thick soup with crusty bread and butter on a cool fall evening. It almost makes me glad the weather’s getting cooler.

Almost. 🙂

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