When I Grow Old … .

A Rave About Getting Old

When I get older, I want to be like my mom.

Yesterday, we went out to lunch for her eighty-fourth birthday, which she enjoyed. But truthfully, she was more thrilled by the Solitaire app I downloaded on her Nook.

Seriously, I had to remind her to eat her soup.

Afterwards, we took an accidentally circuitous route to a small town nearby and popped into the library and a few shops.

It was a lovely day.

But the reason I want to be like Mom when I get older has more to do with the text she sent me last night. It said (and I’m pretty sure she won’t mind me sharing), “Just wanted to let u know I got 6 beautiful red roses from my friend J—– (don’t get any ideas — he was born in 1964) but we r friends.”

Not bad for a Nook reading, Solitaire-playing, texting, 84-year-old great grandma, eh?

Here she is holding our library’s “One Book, One Community” book, Wonder and looking not a day over seventy.

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Happy Birthday, Mom. Hoping for many more.

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Guilty as Charged: On Guilt and Writing and Life

I feel guilty all the time.

When I’m at work, I feel like I should be spending time with my nearly-84-year-old mom. Or possibly The Engineer if he’s home. At the very least, I should be available when Darling Daughter calls from college.

Sometimes I’m not.

If I’m doing housework or cooking, I feel like I should be writing.

And if I’m at the computer, I feel like I ought to be cleaning.

Or maybe exercising.

Heaven forbid if I sit down to read.

Somehow, I’m convinced that I ought to be able to fit in all these things and still have time to relax enough to be, well, serene and relaxed so I don’t drive everyone else insane!

Is this just a female thing?

Worse, could it possibly be just me?

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Aviation: It’s Not Just a Hobby, It’s an Adventure!

Rave
Some sights from our trip home from Oshkosh.

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C17 Oshkosh

Glad we didn’t have to take off after this guy.
His wake turbulence would have blown us away.

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How Would You Like to See This Coming at You?

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Cessna and C17

Big Plane, Little Plane

Oshkosh North 40

The End of Oshkosh — Only a Few Planes Left

Interesting Building Outside Chicago

Interesting Building Outside Chicago

Some Birds’ Eye Views of Chicago

Chicago Skyline from the Air

 

Chicago Skyline from the Air

Navy Pier from the Air

Navy Pier

Chicago from the Air

The Former Meigs Field

This was an airport until Mayor Daly got his hands on it. Now it’s an empty field with an empty lake.

Back Home

Back Home

What’s missing from this picture? Look carefully, and you’ll see there’s no way for us to get to our house. Since Akron was socked in by a storm, we couldn’t land there, which meant we couldn’t get the car I’d left when I flew commercial to Appleton. Lucky for us, a guy at the airport lent us his truck to get home. 🙂

 

 

 

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Algae on Lake Erie

A Rant

Reposting this picture from October 2011. It was a crying shame then, and it’s a crying shame now.

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Algae on Lake Erie 2011

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I Ate a Squirrel

A Rave About Local Food — extremely local (like from your backyard) 

Actually, I ate a few bites of squirrel. And some groundhog too.

You see, I was at the Burning River Festival in Cleveland, and one of the food demonstrations (put on by the Fresh Fork Cafe) was called “Rabbits, and Groundhogs, and Squirrels, Oh My!: Tips on backyard trapping and tasting of squirrel stew.” (Go here for more info on the festival: http://tinyurl.com/k4h6fdv .)

I realized a long time ago that opportunities to try something new don’t present themselves often so I tamped down my squeamishness and took a bite.

Stifle the groan, will ya? They were delicious. Which goes a long way toward supporting my theory that you can make anything taste good if you use enough onions and garlic.

Still, I would have been a complete failure as a frontier woman. When the presenters began talking about skinning and butchering, I tuned them out and ate some zucchini.

 

 

 

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Ohio City Bicycle Co-op: A Cleveland Wonder

A Rave
My family tends to accumulate bicycles. Well, that’s not entirely accurate. I tend to accumulate bikes, which tends to drive The Engineer crazy.

You see, I love bikes, and I love getting a bargain, so when I see a bicycle at a garage sale … well, you can guess the outcome.

This is how we came to own six bikes for three people. At one point, we actually had seven, but one was kind of rusty and in not very good shape so I think it became recycled metal.

Anyway, a few years ago at our Relay for Life garage sale, someone donated an Raleigh road bike. It was a lovely old ten-speed in reasonable condition but the sale’s customers just didn’t seem to appreciate such a classic vintage bicycle.

In the end, I bought it “for my daughter.”

Yeah, right. Darling Daughter already had three bikes (a folding bike for the plane, an airport bike and her regular bike), and didn’t really want or need another.

Still, I managed to convince myself otherwise. After all, someday, she’s going to do a bike tour with me (a promise I weaseled out of her when I was in chemo — never underestimate the power  of”the cancer card”).

Sure, she’ll do a tour with me, once I’m too old to ride more than she can ride without training.

Anyway, the Raleigh has lived in our hangar for about two years, nestled among our folding bikes, its tires pumped up once a year but rarely ridden.

I couldn’t bear to donate it to Goodwill; this bicycle deserved better — a loving home with someone who would appreciate its charm.

Thankfully, a friend of ours mentioned Ohio City Bicycle Co-op, a place I’d heard of but never visited.

Turns out they accept donations of bicycles, which are then refurbished by volunteers and young people who might otherwise not be able to afford a bike. To quote their website, “OCBC’s Earn A Bike program is an in-depth course of bike repair and riding for youth. By completing the program, students earn a refurbished basic mountain bike, with a new helmet and lock. This program is free for any child.”  (http://tinyurl.com/nbxkjho)

Well, I think that’s splendid, so splendid that I followed the extremely detailed, eleven-step directions from their website down to their shop in the bowels of The Flats (and isn’t that an interesting part of town). I took the Raleigh, and when I wheeled it in, one of the men working there said, “My old bike!”

It was an omen. Our bargain bicycle had found its place.

And what a place it was! I could have stayed for hours, looking at all the stuff — a side-by-side tandem and several wide-seated bicycles like the one I learned to ride on.

Sociable sailor tandem

Sociable sailor tandem (Photo credit: fixedgear)

There were discount store bikes for sale, but also several high-end bicycle shop bikes at extremely reasonable (read “cheap”) prices, plus used and new seats, baskets, bags, jerseys — anything and everything to do with bicycles.

How incredible that such an amazing endeavor manages to function with a work force made up almost entirely of volunteers!

So, next time you hear someone knock our fair city on the lake, go ahead and tell them about our fabulous (free!) art museum, our Rock Hall, and our sports teams  — or maybe you’d be better off bragging about our ridiculously, contrarily loyal sports fans — but be sure to mention the small wonder that is Ohio City Bicycle Co-op.

And, here’s another idea. Why not donate those bikes your family no longer uses, or even some (gasp!) money?  If you don’t want to follow the eleven-step directions to Co-op’s shop, contact me. I’ll do it for you.

For more information about the Cleveland Bicycle Co-op, visit their website: http://tinyurl.com/myysaxk

 

 

 

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Do It Because You Can: Riding the Rails to Trails Conservancy Greenway Sojourn Bicycle Tour

A Rant and a Rave 

A lot of people think it’s crazy to spend a vacation bicycling forty miles a day, sleeping in a tent, then getting up in the morning to do it again. There are others who are think forty miles a day is a walk — or should I say a coast downhill? — in the park.

I fall into neither category. Cycling all day and sleeping in a tent is my idea of fun. Unfortunately, my body disagrees.

Yes, I’m the one who signs up for such an adventure, then moans the whole way about what a slog it is. And can we please find somewhere that sells ice cream? And will we ever get to camp?

You’re probably wondering why I would put myself through something I knew would be such a challenge.

The answer is simple: I did it because I knew I could. More importantly, I know just how lucky I am to be able to, even after having cancer.

Well, I cycled the whole 205 miles and lived to tell you the tale.

Okay, so the official mileage was 191. My cycle computer said 205, and who are you going to believe?

And yes, I walked two hills, but only because we were starting from a complete stop at the bottom, which is a really sucky way to tackle a hill.

The odd thing was the bridges, which normally terrify me, were less of a challenge. I looked at them and thought, “Hey, I survived cancer. I can certainly do this.”

Part of the credit for this accomplishment goes to my friend Tina, who was my companion for this ride. She refused to take my complaining seriously and slowed to keep me company on the fifty-mile days. Credit also goes to Stella Ivy Eleanor Juliet Montague. Despite a slight problem with one of her pedals (repaired by the equally stellar Rod Mann, who served as the volunteer bike mechanic for the trip), Stella was — dare I use another astronomy reference? — a star.

I know you, dear readers. Some of you are reading this and saying, “That’s great for you, Kym, but I could never do such a thing.”

Well, maybe you could and maybe you couldn’t. You’ll never know unless you try.

I don’t mean everyone should run out and sign up for a bike tour. Heaven knows, there are enough witnesses to my whining without adding more. But I no longer believe in creating limits that don’t exist. If you don’t want to do something, fine. That’s a perfectly valid reason not to, in my book. But don’t go around saying you can’t, not until you’ve at tried.

Greenway Sojourn Bus Ride to Weirton

On Our Way! Bus Ride to Weirton

Montour Trail

Green Fields Along Montour Trail

Right. That’s the end of my sermon. Now check out these photos of the beautiful
Great Allegheny Passage.

Ghost Bicycle Montour Trail

Ghost Bicycle on Montour Trail

This sculpture was in a little garden near the start of the trail, acting as a reminder to be careful along the way.

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Old Buildings Along Montour Trail

 

 

 

Rail-trails sometimes end up in places the modern world seems to have left behind.

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We spent a lot of time looking at flowers along the trailside.

Purple Flowers Along the Trail

Purple Flowers Along the Trail

Connellsville Arch

Arch at Top of Trail — Connellsville, Pennsylvania

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Arch in Connellsville, Pennsylvania — lunch stop on our second fifty-mile day. Is that a storm brewing? Why, yes, as a matter of fact, it is. Great Allegheny Passage Great Allegheny Passage

 

 

 

 

 

 

City park, also in Connellsville (I think).

 

 

 

 

It rained just long and hard enough to ensure the last ten miles to Confluence were briskly ridden. We camped there at the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers Outflow Campground beneath a dam.Below are some scenes around camp and town. I liked the name of the Confluence library.  Also finally got to visit Falling Water. After seeing York Minster in April, I was not impressed though I did like a tree I saw on the property.IMAG0206

 

Falling Water

Falling Water

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Grit Caked on Stella After Getting Caught in the Rain

Grit Caked on Stella After Getting Caught in the Rain.

Grit Caked on Me Too!

Grit Caked on Me Too!

Confluence Dam Campground

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High Bridge over the Youghiogheny River

High Bridge over the Youghiogheny River

Youghiogheny River

Youghiogheny River

Youghiogheny River

Youghiogheny River

Great Allegheny Passage Waterfall

Trailside Waterfall

Trailside Bike Shop -- We have everything to suit your biking needs.

Trailside Bike Shop — We have everything to suit your biking needs.

Bike Sculptures on Bike Shop Great Allegheny Passage

Moving Bike Sculptures on Trailside Bike Shop

Youghiogheny River

Youghiogheny River

Rockwood was a charming town, with a lovely converted opera house. We ended up getting a free pizza — always a point in any town’s favor. I especially enjoyed the prints on the women’s room. “Mother’s Good Time Hat and Dress” — sign me up for one of those.

Rockwood, PA Opera House

Rockwood Opera House

Stylish, But Not Practical for Cycling

Stylish, But Not Practical for Cycling

Bike Sculpture -- Greenway Sojourn

Bike Sculpture

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Salisbury Viaduct, near Meyersdale, Pennsylvania

This is the really high, really long bridge I crossed — the Salisbury Viaduct. Darling Daughter and The Engineer should be proud. Very, very proud. Would have loved to take a picture from it to show you just how high it is, but couldn’t because I’m, you know, terrified of high bridges! And can I just say the people of Meyersdale were wonderful? The firemen and women served us delicious lasagna, salad, garlic bread, and beer. And the Lions Club made us a pancake breakfast with real maple syrup and local sausage. Also, the town has a very cool bar and restaurant called Morguen Tool, so called because it was once the morgue and a tool shop, though not, of course, at the same time.

Pennsylvania Is Pretty, Especially on a 24-Mile Downhill on the Last Day of a Bike Tour

Pennsylvania Is Pretty, Especially on a 24-Mile Downhill on the Last Day of a Bike Tour

Me and Tina -- No wonder, I look like an Amazon. I sure felt like one.

Me and Tina — No wonder, I look like an Amazon. I felt like one.

This town has a name, something to do with Arnold, but I'm not really sure. It was pretty though.

This town has a name, something to do with Arnold, but I’m not really sure. It was pretty though.

Steam Train on Great Allegheny Passage

Steam Train on Great Allegheny Passage

You see the path? We were on that path, and that train passed just a few feet away from us.

The Last Bridge

The Last Bridge

One last quick story — We passed through a town called Library (http://library.pennsylvania.com/). There were two guys chatting at a car repair shop, and I mentioned I liked the name of their town. They asked what was up with all these cyclists, so I told them.

The younger one, who was maybe thirty, said, “That’s what I’m going to do when I get old, ride around on a bike.”

I’ll admit many in our group were aged perhaps fifty and above, but still …

“Thanks for that,” I said, knowing he was oblivious to the fact he’d just insulted me to my face.

And he repeated it again!

Let’s think about this — which of us was perched behind the wheel of a gas-guzzling truck, and which of us was on a bike, riding forty miles a day?

Addendum: I should have mentioned one of the reasons I hadn’t been on a bike trip since 2011 is because my cycling buddy, Pat Carterette, died early that year very shortly after learning she had cancer  (and a few months before my own diagnosis). I still think of  her often, especially when I’m riding. Thus, I dedicate this post to Pat, a woman missed by everyone lucky enough to have known her. She would have had a great time on Sojourn with Tina and me.

If you’re interested in participating in next year’s Sojourn, here’s a link to the website:
http://wilderness-voyageurs.com/rails-to-trails-conservancy-greenway-sojourn.html
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Stella Ivy Eleanor Juliet Montague, Or How Friends Can Improve Your Writing

This is my bike, a folding Montague (from when they were still co-branding with Schwinn). She’s one of three, usually found dangling on our hangar wall, in the baggage compartment of our plane or tooling around one of the Lake Erie islands.

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Stella Ivy Eleanor Juliet Montague aka “All the Way May”

However, this year, she’s going on a bike tour — her first, though not mine. In the past I’ve ridden my road bike (a pink Bianchi Eros also from the early 90s that I call Petunia), but this tour is on rail-trails and they recommend using a hybrid.

Sigh.

Don’t get me wrong. I love my Montague.  And don’t even start about the wastefulness of owning two bikes. I know it’s seems extravagant, but the Montague is so heavy, especially when you pack on all the gear I like to take on long rides. Besides, if you know anything about me, you know I never pay full price for anything. The pair of them probably cost less than your two wheeler (and what an expression that is — takes me right back to second grade).

Still, what doesn’t kill me makes me stronger and all that, right? I’ve grown resigned to the idea of lugging my weighty black bike around the trails of West Virginia, Pennsylvania and Maryland. (For details on the tour — which is going to be awesome, by the way — go here: http://tinyurl.com/my692xa).

But the Montague didn’t have a name. I don’t know why it’s so important to me — I certainly don’t normally name inanimate objects (well, except for my bikes and maybe the plane) — but it feels wrong to go on a journey of over two hundred miles together and not be on a first name basis.

I’ve tried for years to think of one, but none of my ideas felt quite right.

Finally, in desperation, I posted my dilemma on Facebook. Within seconds, I had received a suggestion for the perfect name.

Stella. Perfect because it means star, and she is a star, and also because Stella is one of my family nicknames.

And Ivy, from Darling Daughter. Perfect because it’s a plant, like Petunia, my other bike. And also green, like the trim on Stella.

Stella Ivy sounds good, right?

But then someone else suggested Eleanor, after Eleanor Roosevelt who was, as he said, “as lovely inside as she wasn’t outside.”

Well, how could I say no?

Stella Ivy Eleanor Montague. Fair enough. I have four names. Why shouldn’t my bike?

Then another friend mentioned Juliet — to go with the Montague, you see.

So, my friends, meet Stella Ivy Eleanor Juliet Montague, who my cycling partner has also nicknamed “All the Way May.”

It sounds crazy, but now I feel like we’re a team, Stella Ivy Eleanor Juliet Montague and me, ready to hit the rail-trails.

Now here’s the part where I make this story have something to do with reading or writing.

In writing, you see, as in bicycle naming, sometimes you need a little help from your friends.

An example: On my current WIP, my heroine has to see her father doing something with a woman who isn’t the heroine’s mother. It had to be bad enough to make the heroine not speak to him for several years, but not bad enough to make him irredeemable.

At first, I had the heroine — let’s call her Holly — catch her dad kissing another woman, until a friend pointed out a kiss was too minor a transgression for Holly to react so strongly. It made Holly seem like a priss, which she is to some extent, and yet, she still had to be likeable.

I changed the scene to have Holly catch Dad with his hand down the other woman’s blouse.

That didn’t feel right either. Too sleazy.

Eventually, I shared the excerpt with my critique partners. One of them said, “I think he should be groping her ass.”

Exactly right.

Now, I’m not saying your friends can write your story for you, or that they’ll always have the answers (or even bike names), but what they can do is get you thinking in different ways so you can solve the problem.

Or so says Stella Ivy Eleanor Juliet Montague.

Addendum: By the time you read this, I’ll be on the tour. Wish me luck!

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Excused Absence or Merely a List of Excuses (for Not writing)

You know how schools divide absences into excused and unexcused? Well, I’d like to argue that my recent sabbatical from writing falls into the former category.

If it counts for anything, my Mom could write me a note.

Here’s what was going on in May:

  • My RWA chapter conference
  • Multiple doctors’ appointments for both my mother and me (nothing major, just the usual maintenance and upkeep)
  • Relay for Life garage sale
  • Relay for Life
  • Beer festival (Okay, so maybe that one’s unexcused.)
  • Training for the weeklong bike tour I’m going on starting next week (It’s this one if you’re curious: http://www.railstotrails.org/getinvolved/findanevent/sojourn/index.html.)
  • Multiple trips to Columbus for a variety of reasons involving the end of term for Darling Daughter and a book fair
  • A cold followed (as they always are) by a sinus infection

I’m not complaining, merely noting I’ve had a busy couple of months. There’s not much I could or would have done differently, and yet I feel like I’m making excuses for not finding the time to write.

As a writer friend recently said, “No matter what I’m doing, if I’m not writing, I feel like I should be.”

My feelings exactly.

Still,  I’m determined to cut myself some slack and call this hiatus as an excused one. Life is and will always be a constant source of material and humor for my books, and I don’t have to apologize to anyone for taking a break. Since I’m not on deadline for anything,  I’m going to try to quit feeling guilty.

So, here’s my note:

Please excuse Kym’s absence from her writing duties. She has been busy gathering material to enhance both current and future writing projects. 

Signed,

Kym’s Mother

Pat and Me

Pat and Me

This is my friend Pat. She and I used to do bike tours together.
She’s gone now, and I miss her, but as my new cycling partner said yesterday,
“I think she’ll be with you on this trip.”
I think so too.

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Memories of Dad

In honor of Father’s Day, I’m reblogging a post I wrote on what would have been my Dad’s birthday. He’s been gone more than eleven years, but I know he would have loved seeing my Darling Daughter grow up.

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My father died eleven years ago, shortly before his seventy-sixth birthday. His death was caused by Alzheimer’s, as was his mother’s.

If you’re fortunate enough not to have witnessed the deterioration of an Alzheimer’s patient, you’re lucky. The disease robs the soul of your loved one – stealing it in tiny increments and leaving only a shell of the person you knew.

As the disease progressed, I would have sworn sometimes that I could see when Dad’s syanpses received the brain’s electrical charges. For a moment, he’d be there, and then that spark was snuffed out like the flame of a candle. As time passed, those moments grew fewer and fewer. Eventually there were no more.

During his final illness, I visited him in the hospital, though I don’t think he knew I was there. Bag of yarn at my side and crochet hook in hand, I’d sit next to…

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